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21 year old Kiwi.

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    tittily:

    my little cousin got bit by a house spider and she was crying so i went to get some stuff to soothe and numb it but before i could even walk out the door i heard her quietly whisper ‘i can’t handle the responsibility of being spiderman’

    nateswinehart:

    Being good to each other is so important, guys.

    you-are-my-wire-in-the-oblivion:

    haleycomet:

    i literally never get tired of this post

    THANK YOU 

    hermione + text posts

    xaannaax:

    bookiesbooty:

    It’s back.

    This is my favorite video of all time

    doodlingbreaktime:

    This is what a bored Fassy Shark looks like.

    rifa:

    check-your-privilege-feminists:

    Tumblr: spreading the world apart, one group at a time.

    THIS is the shit that bothers me with tumblr

    Hi, I have a request! Could you draw Charles and Erik (and anyone else you want) on vacation in Hawaii? Thank you!!

    @Anonymous

    entirelyenigmatic17:

    image

    AU where Erik takes Charles to Hawaii to cheer him up when he sees how depressed he’s gotten in dofp.

    (but first he has to shave)

    • gandalf: Thorin gave Bilbo a mithril shirt
    • gimli: holy shit so they were fucking for real
    • gandalf: yea

    “I think one thing you can do to help your friends who are depressed is to reach out to them not in the spirit of helping, but in the spirit of liking them and wanting their company. “I’m here to help if you ever need me” is good to know, but hard to act on, especially when you’re in a dark place. Specific, ongoing, pleasure-based invitations are much easier to absorb. “I’m here. Let’s go to the movies. Or stay in and order takeout and watch some dumb TV.” “I’m having a party, it would be really great if you could come for a little while.” Ask them for help with things you know they are good at and like doing, so there is reciprocity and a way for them to contribute. “Will you come over Sunday and help me clear my closet of unfashionable and unflattering items? I trust your eye.” “Will you read this story I wrote and help me fix the dialogue?” “Want to make dinner together? You chop, I’ll assemble.” “I am going glasses shopping and I need another set of eyes.” Remind yourself why you like this person, and in the process, remind them that they are likable and worth your time and interest.

    Talk to the parts of the person that aren’t being eaten by the depression. Make it as easy as possible to make and keep plans, if you have the emotional resources to be the initiator and to meet your friends a little more than halfway. If the person turns down a bunch of invitations in a row because (presumably) they don’t have the energy to be social, respect their autonomy by giving it a month or two and then try again. Keep the invitations simple; “Any chance we could have breakfast Saturday?” > “ARE YOU AVOIDING ME BECAUSE YOU’RE DEPRESSED OR BECAUSE YOU HATE ME I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU.” “I miss you and I want to see you” > “I’m worried about you.” A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do. No need for you to call attention to it. Just keep asking. “I want to see you” “Let’s do this thing.” “If you are feeling low, I understand, and I don’t want to impose on you, but I miss your face. Please come have coffee with me.” “Apology accepted. ApologIES accepted. So. Gelato and Outlander?””

    #613: How do I reach out to my friends who have depression? | Captain Awkward

    P.S. A lot of people with depression and other mental illnesses have trouble making decisions or choosing from a bunch of different options. “Wanna get dinner at that pizza place on Tuesday night?” is a LOT easier to answer than “So wanna hang out sometime? What do you want to do?”

    (via startrekrenegades)

    moosekingofhell:

    Forever wondering if I am contributing to a conversation by using my own experiences or being self centered and rude.

    nonelikerae:

    Do you want to create an emotionally stable life together and adopt a dog or nah.

    petitpotato:

Today has been all about gloomy dofp feels…

    petitpotato:

    Today has been all about gloomy dofp feels…